Well done for supporting your local hospice (I support mine too). They need the money more than people desperate to win competitions by asking questions on here. Even ten entrants put off by early asking means £10 less for Pendleside Hospice.
As for getting a life - I have a very nice one thank you.
I have a lovely family, I live in one of the most stable countries in the world (even if it run by numpties sometimes). I try to be polite , helpful and courteous but alas I am becoming a dying breed as the new, upcoming, petulant, "I'll do whatever I want" foot stamping generation gradually takes over.
I know which life I'd rather have..............