Anyone Up For A Soppy Chat?

[Smowball]

For those who know me teen smow gets his GCSE results tomorrow. If he'd been living here I had a party planned etc with cake bubbles and balloons. But because out of the blue two weeks ago he decided to not come home I can't do that. He's driving up in morning with his dad to get results and then go straight back. My heart is breaking. Bit I can't show that. So tomorrow I'm praying he has a brainstorm and chooses to stay here xx

[-SharonA-]

Smow I am sorry to hear this. All I can say, is keep communication open and let him know his home is still here and he is loved.

[Caran]

So sorry Smow that he has still not come home. Keep your chin up, and hope he changes his mind. Hugs from me!

[Mamyalynne]

All you can do is be calm but not cool, if you get the chance tell him you love him and always will.

If we let them go to make even their mistakes with love there is always the chance they'll return quickly.

Happened to me and it all worked out in the end. ♥

[Jackdaw33]

A shame for you, but he must have a good reason for preferring to stay with his dad rather than with his mum.

[Mamyalynne]

Ah JD, so true - they get fed tales of wonder and a life of ease and comfort and sometimes they believe it.

Until it falls apart.

[Peter Pedant]

aaah bubbles and balloons
well these things blow over Smow- and
the little jerk may come to his senses

jsut tell him heis welcome anytime ....

[Smowball]

Much help jackdaw - not lol.

[waterboatman]

That is so sad to see smow. But he is in turmoil at the moment. I hope he does come to see you. XXX

[ummmm]

As long as he knows he's welcome back. There is a good chance the novelty will wear off.

[murraymints]

put up the balloons anyway..and get out the cake..he will see sense soon..

[ummmm]

My daughter went to live with her dad at a similar age to young Smow. I wasn't happy at first but it turned out really well.

But....he's a decent, honest, hardworking man.

[seekeerz]

Smow ....are they coming to yours to collect his results or picking up elsewhere ... Ours come out in the mail, don't know how it works in the UK ?

If they're coming to you anyway, could you lay on a little celebration assuming he's done well ? Fingers crossed xx

[ummmm]

Seekerz...they can collect their results or get them posted.

My son already has his.

[Maydup]

If he's coming to your house lay on a celebration regardless of the results. If he's not and he's collecting results from school, text him now to wish him luck today. Tell him that regardless of the results, he's a fantastic individual and you wish him success in life.

He might just call in on his way home, I sincerely hope he does Smowball.

[murraymints]

that's what I meant if he is picking up mail...put up balloons etc

[Peter Pedant]

he'll have got them by now
what WERE his results ?

[Cloverjo]

I hope he did well. Sorry you're having such a tough time of it.
Your family is full of love, so I'm sure he'll be ok.

[B00]

Now see i'd go the other way- I wouldn't make a thing of this for him. I'd try and make a point of that your life is ticking along quite nicely without him in it. He may be getting a secret thrill from seeing you hurt over his absence, making him think otherwise might pull him up sharpish.

[Bathsheba]

Thinking of you Smow, hoping it all turns out well.

Jackdaw....reported.

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