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Thank you all for your advice.
Wolf- i didnt even contemplate that the kitten (Lily) would be the problem! I just hope they're OK together.
Kimmiebear- I had planned to keep them apart as much as possible - the dog has a kennel outside so he can go in there if needs be.I also hadn't thought about the fact that limiting her to a few rooms may help her, so thank you.
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maggie- I think she would probably be better staying here. Shes a very sociable little thing, and so needs attention a lot. She's used to being spoilt at home, so Im not sure how she would cope being on her own. Also, there is no cat flap at her home, so leaving her there would only cause mess!
Thank you all for your advice, any more will be greatly appreciated
xx