ChatterBank0 min ago
Money and Relationships - Help!
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For more on marking an answer as the "Best Answer", please visit our FAQ.As for the actual dilemma you don't say what your joint financial commitments are...do you live in his flat? Do you share the bills as you certainly don't seem to have a joint account? Perhaps if this is the case or maybe if he's paying some of the bills then he sees this as your contribution? I really don't know (and as no-one else on here does, including me, I would ca' canny) but doesn't it say something in the vows about "bestowing all my worldy goods"? and I do mean that for both sides?
Lastly, do all your discussions with sober heads as drink, regardless of any implications of violence or not, will not help with clear thinking.
Regardless I hope whatever happens it works out for you.