He is Cheating on Me

[aminag]

I just found out that my boyfriend has been cheating on me. Or should I say he is cheating on his other girlfriend. I found out by chance from a friend of mine, back home. I had not told anybody that I was seeing this guy (i have been seeing him since June this year) my friend mentioned in passing that she heard he was in town (he goes overseas once every month) and his girlfriend was chuffed he was in town. So the questions started coming fast. To cut a long story short. I found out they have been an item since Jan this year, before we went out he said he was single. I want to dump him without getting my friend into trouble. Please advise, whats the best way. Because I really rather not be the other woman.

[4getmenot]

well just tell him sorry I dont want to be with you anymore. I;m sure he wont plead for an explanation, he'll just run back to his other girlfriend, so probably wouldnt be his loss, or yours for that matter

[Ice-Maiden]

Absolutely agree!

[Reverandfunk]

Tell him to f**k off and go after him with a machete/iron bar

[4getmenot]

rev I prefer a baseball bat, great for hitting balls :-)

[gummybear]

aminag - Poor you but i Think you should be thinking of his poor girlfriend as well - Id make sure as hell she knew what a rat he was, you dont have to mention your mates name at all !!
Im sure if it was the other way round you would want to know. she might have visions of wedding bells with this horrible man - sisterhood and al that - do the right thing . lol x

[aminag]

Thanks gummybear I agree I should tell her, because she is all excited about moving over here to the UK to be with him, I just wonder what he intended doing over xmas with both of us. I am definitely dumping him, but he will only be back in two weeks time, I don't want to call him and dump him over the phone........ or should I?

[4getmenot]

oh another one that choses to ignore other answers, we have all given an answer you know. Leave her to find out herself, its their business

[legend760]

dont get involved with the gf whatever you do.


just call him.
say hes dumped.

end of.




and move opn and dont go back with him.

hes bad news

[gummybear]

No defo dont dump him over the phone - thats making it soooo easy for him - Id avoid speaking to him at all till i had chance to really give it all some thought and to come up with a belter of a plan - take your time hun x

[4getmenot]

for once I agree with the legend, its not your life anymore, move on

[sarnieken]

Definitely kick his a*se into touch.
don't tell him how you found out. It doesn't matter how you know about him.
If he starts getting strange then ask him if he wants his actual girlfriend to find out about it all.

[legend760]

4get just called me the legend.

well if 4get said it it must be true


bow down minions lol



aminag i hope uve now dumped him ?

[istvanski]

Jeremy kyle or Trisha. . .best way to treat a cheater. The show will contact the girlfriend with another reason to get her onto the show and SURPRIZZZZZZZZZE. . .