Just found out a friend hates me on facebook, some payback advice please :P

[willchr2004]

Was just recently on facebook and i spotted a comment on the 'home' area basically from someone saying they hate me. I was my good mates girlfriend and i was asking them to go to london with me and some mates. This is what i found.
'... i do not want to go up to london with that thing that i find extremely insulting and hes wearing gay sunglasses anyway'
I was a bit shocked when i saw this cos i thought we were good friends so im now wondering how i can get back at her in the most mature way possile. Below i will list some possible forms of inspiration to fuel your ideas:
1. It was her birthday a couple of days ago.
2. I have her number and facebook account so it can be done either of those 2 ways.
3. i Could possibly do it via my mate who is going out with her.
4.We were going to london as a group, which would b the 3rd time.
....that probs doesnt rele help but just in case, i included it.

please note: i do not want to make a scene and do not want to get aggressive, i just basically want to rinse her beyond belief, or make her feel bad or make her look like an arse, in the most mature way possible. THANKS

[4GS]

Poo in her handbag

[SKA]

I saw someone recomend doing this to someone on het a few weeks ago
put her number on an escorts page
oh find some unflattering pics of her and facebook them and remember to tag her in them!!

[tigersam258]

why do you need to respond? surely she is entitled to her opinion without fear of retribution. I think that you are being very immature in thinking that you need to make a point when the comment was not made to you and was instead to one of her friends.

if she doesn't like you, tough. Live with it! If your friend that she is seeing is okay with you then thats fine. You dont have to do anything with her.

You say that you dont want to make a scene but surely 'getting back at her' will invoke a reaction that would cause a scene so let it go. Life is too short and you need to rise above it.

She is the one that has to deal with it and if you haven't done anything to make her 'hate' you then she will naturally look silly in the long run.

[redcrx]

why get back at her?

Mature way would be to say that you saw what she'd written and could she explain it.

[willchr2004]

Wen i say it doesnt have to provoke bad rections i also mean that i could do say something (as if obliviouds to the situation) rele nice, like, i got u a present for ur b day (i dont know) that would not be horrible but would make her think abot wht she said. if u get me :)

[redcrx]

but then thats slightly false because youd only be buying her a pressy to make her feel bad for how she feels. It could also be seen as trying to buy her friendship.

[willchr2004]

no, cos i wouldnt actually buy her pressy, just say i did to see what her rection was. Plus it was only a sugestion to hopefully giv u guys ideas.

[cazzz1975]

Dont try getting back at her because you may run the risk of ruining your friendship with your mate, If it were me I would just be polite but would not spend any time near her if I could help it

[willchr2004]

thats pretty deep cazza but probably rite. Im undicided as of yet but who knows!?

[4getmenot]

I would just forward her own msg back to her and then she will know you've seen it and want to hide

[hau kola]

4GS you crack me up.lol

[willchr2004]

all good stuff, but tbh i recon she wanted me to see it, cos its not like she tried to hide it. I just wish i knew what was up.

[4getmenot]

then ask her

[sense4all]

I would make sure I was in every picture with her and my overtly gay sunglasses, I might even buy a 'big gay' hat to match them ... lol.

[formergpWTF]

yes 4 once i agree with legend actually.
I take it you are still at school... Most mature thing to do is to brush it off to be honest. You cant be liked by every1. On the other hand -
Poo in handbag is always a safe bet.

[evedawn]

Just ask her WHY she said that. I reckon it'll probably make her squirm enough.


ry not to take it badly - in the real world you'll always encounter at least one or two who aren't your biggest fans but ....you'll also find plenty people who DO like you.