" Everybody wants to be nice .Some just cant manage it tho "

[Dr-Legend]

When was the last time , if ever , that you bought a drink for someone you didnt know ?
Couldve been as a thankyou for barman/barmaid or for a member of the opposite sex you liked the look of , or even just someone you got chatting to in the pub about footie and asked if he or she wanted a drink ?





" Everybody wants to be nice .Some just cant manage it tho "

[redcrx]

blimey leg, i cant remember the last time i bought myself a drink :(

[joggerjayne]

We always ask the barmaid / barman if they would "like to have one yourself?" if we buy drinks between us.

We know they just keep the money and don't have a drink, but that's the way it works.

If I'm at the bar on my own I don't do it, but I think most men would still do it.



DID THIS HELP ??

[4getmenot]

someone I didnt know??? Erm cant even think, if you did that in my local they wouldnt accept it and shouldnt either. Never accept a drink of a stranger

[joggerjayne]

We'd accept your kind offer 4GET, because we know you're just being a gentleman, and have no other motive, and you wouldn't get the @rse when we all went off giggling and left you to it x

[redcrx]

she would get the @rse if you though she was a gentleman jayne lol

[Dr-Legend]

Sorry read the post again .
Could be another woman you were just chatting to.This isnt a pulling question.
I think that if youre scared to accept a drink from someone you should stay indoors tucked uop in safety.
Ive been at bars chattin to other guys about football etc and when the pints done theyuve said are you wanting another?
Now they werent tryin to pick me up.

can we think about this nicely and maybe get a few answers ?


:-)

[joggerjayne]

Ohh, 4get ... Sorry !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

*blushes*

[4getmenot]

:-(

[4getmenot]

what made you think I was a bloke?

[4getmenot]

then if you're chatting to them they are no stranger are they

[4getmenot]

Stay indoors tucked up safely just because I wouldn�t accept a drink from a stranger. Lol, I think that�s just being wise isn�t it

[Dr-Legend]

4ghet youre being awkward.You can chat in a pub without knowing someone its called being sociable.Or dont they do that in your pub?

Surely youve chatted to strangers before?
If you dont then howd you ever get to know folk ?


Understand what im meaning now ?

[mccfluff]

i get bought drinks quite a lot and will often leave a tip for a barperson

[Dr-Legend]

Flufff thats cos youre so friendly.


Now remeber that a tenner you owes me.


















" Everybody wants to be nice .Some just cant manage it tho "

[mccfluff]

its because i'm a bloody good barwench, and its you who owes me the tenner ;-)

[cazzz1975]

I bought someone a bottle of coke out of the vending machine once, only because he was trying to make up the amount with pennies and he looked a bit pitiful

[4getmenot]

If that�s being awkward, then jeez, And when your drink has been spiked before by someone you did know then also very very wise. and yes I;ve chatted to strangers but wouldnt ever accept a drink of someone the first night I;d met them. I know most people in my local so dont have that prob anyway.

[4getmenot]

but if I was in a club and met someone that night I couldnt accept a drink

[joggerjayne]

4get

There was nothing to make me think u were a bloke, I'd just mentally flipped a coin and got it wrong :-)

[4getmenot]

:-)