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Thank you for your answers....I really appreciate them.
I cant really enlarge on my question, all I can say is that it is against me. Its a really personal issue. I left my employment a couple of years ago as result of text and e mail harrassment and then an uninvited visit to my house by the allegator (alligator?!).
Stupidly, I confided in her about something very personal from my past - but only a very small part.
This person, who alleges that she has been through similar yet very different issues to me, has now told everyone in my former place of employment that I lied and that she is about to publish something in the paper .
God, there is so much more to this story that I cannot disclose . I took a grievance out initially but i was SO ill with thigs that I didnt pursue it....well i tried but time limit for grievances had expired, Stupid of me , I know.
BUT I did go through my work union who examined my entire past...personal , medical, psychological......and I eventually received a written apology from my ex employers (for whom she still works).
I am just petrified that this person is going to use my name.
I live in a very small city with a horrendous profile of gossip. Nightmare.
All I can say is that I am not lying, woudnt lie, couldnt lie. I am a carer. She manipulated me to disclose. God, how I regret