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Thank you very much mamyalynne and spitza for your help with this answer.
DaiFawkes - you do not know how much I have thought about this question so why comment on it. It is a question and answer site, isn't it? Also there is one answer given not two! I don't know why you look at the answers if you disagree so much with the concept , anyway as they say 'sticks and stones may break my bones but words will never hurt me', especially from someone who is so negative on this site.