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A friend has a problem with their neighbour - bonfires what to do?
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A friend of mine on our estate is having real problems with a neighbour and I wondered if anyone had any advice?
Their neighbour is in her seventies and has 2 large Alsatians (that rarely get walked). She is a bit of a recluse and barricades herself into her property from all sides.
The problem is she doesnt seem to like children - especially if they dare to play in their garden on a sunny day and make any kind of noise. So she lights a bonfire and burns rubber tyres and plastic to produce mounds of acrid black smoke. She claims its her Romany background and she is performing 'rituals' (seriously! Not winding you up on this one!!!!).
When our friend went round to talk to her about it - she didnt really back down - and he walked away feeling even more pee'd off than before as he doesnt think there is a solution to the problem. She can be very nasty and said some nasty things about his kids (said all little girls were bitc**s) and he feels that if they complain or try to confront the situation she will respond by being nastier.
I am dealing with my own nasty neighbours at the moment (as some of you may know!) but dont know what advice I can offer our friends. It seems unfair their kids cant enjoy the garden on a hot day without breathing in lungfuls of smoke.
By the way - she may be old... (the neighbour) but she claims to 'know people'... the types of 'old school' criminals.. so they are really reluctant to upset her in fear of being confronted by someone or having their tyres slashed!!
What on earth can they do - other than move house!!!!
Any advice please?
Their neighbour is in her seventies and has 2 large Alsatians (that rarely get walked). She is a bit of a recluse and barricades herself into her property from all sides.
The problem is she doesnt seem to like children - especially if they dare to play in their garden on a sunny day and make any kind of noise. So she lights a bonfire and burns rubber tyres and plastic to produce mounds of acrid black smoke. She claims its her Romany background and she is performing 'rituals' (seriously! Not winding you up on this one!!!!).
When our friend went round to talk to her about it - she didnt really back down - and he walked away feeling even more pee'd off than before as he doesnt think there is a solution to the problem. She can be very nasty and said some nasty things about his kids (said all little girls were bitc**s) and he feels that if they complain or try to confront the situation she will respond by being nastier.
I am dealing with my own nasty neighbours at the moment (as some of you may know!) but dont know what advice I can offer our friends. It seems unfair their kids cant enjoy the garden on a hot day without breathing in lungfuls of smoke.
By the way - she may be old... (the neighbour) but she claims to 'know people'... the types of 'old school' criminals.. so they are really reluctant to upset her in fear of being confronted by someone or having their tyres slashed!!
What on earth can they do - other than move house!!!!
Any advice please?
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For more on marking an answer as the "Best Answer", please visit our FAQ.She sounds like she may also have a few mental problems, perhaps this is caused by her being reclusive and lonely. Her actions do appear to be antisocial and the tire buring well that's just unacceptable.
I think I would contact both the council and social services. She may be in need of some kind of help or social care. Sitting indoors all day, with no human contact will mean she'll have more time to dwell on the things other people wouldn't normally notice. Lonliness can send people around the twist.
I think I would contact both the council and social services. She may be in need of some kind of help or social care. Sitting indoors all day, with no human contact will mean she'll have more time to dwell on the things other people wouldn't normally notice. Lonliness can send people around the twist.
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