Hi joko- you well?
Urgh,a tough set of questions, lol. I Guess i've never really analysed why I come on here. It's probably more to do with the reason of it's something to do (daytime TV is incredibly dull). I do like a good argument occasionaly, and often join in if one's occuring- is that childish? Yep, im guessing it is.
I do however really like the fact that despite none of us really knowing each other, we can and do give sound advice and offer, all be it virtual, shoulders to cry on when life kicks us in the teeth. I know i've personally been greatly comforted by other ABers when I went through a horrible, horrible period about 2 years ago and seeing the nice messages from people i hardly know helped a little.