OK, the first bit first ... at midday here it was 9pm in Sydney, so it would have been dark, but the moon wouldn't have been visible there at that time. People there won't see the moon rise until around 3:30am their time ... which is about an hour after the moon set here today.
For the total eclipse, you can show him with a tennis ball, a torch, a darkened room, a 1p piece and a bit of thread and blutak.
Put the torch on a table and hold the tennis ball up several feet away .. the side which catches the torchlight is in daylight, the other side is in night.
Now attach the thread to the 1p piece with blutak and dangle it between the tennis ball and the torch. But dangle it closer to the ball than to the torch.
The shadow of the coin won't blot out all the light from the torch on the "sun" side of the ball, so anyone outside the shadowed area would still see daylight. Anyone in the shadow cast by the coin wouldn't see the light ... and that's what happens during a total eclipse - the moon's shadow blots out the sunlight over a small part of the earth.