FAO, those of you who still retain an interest in the topic of this thread:
The variability of time in different reference frames in relative motion to one another is not intuitive in as much as such inconsistency is not readily apparent within the scope of common everyday experience. It is only with respect to speeds approaching that of the propagation of light that it becomes apparent that the increments of the passage of time are not an entity onto themselves but are dependent on and related to the existence of that which they measure, the periodic changes in matter due to the effects of energy which is itself independent of time. It is only in relation to mass and momentum that the concept of time acquires any substantive meaning, a meaning which can only be derived by the impact it has on the existence of cognitive beings to the extent such an impact can be perceived and appreciated.
In attempting to grasp the relative nature of time perhaps it would be helpful to examine the history of the development of our understanding of the relationship of time to that which it measures. It is in that light I offer for your consideration the following overviews on the evolution of that understanding . . .
http://www-groups.dcs...ecial_relativity.html
http://www.cnn.com/AL...12/27/relativity.html