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here's the scenario - you go on a date with a guy. it goes fine. at the end he asks you what you're up to at the weekend. you say you're busy (cos you are) then he asks you what you're up to sunday, once again you say your busy (cos you genuinely are) then he says that you'll probably see each other at a mutual friends party but you say you aren't going. then he never bothers to arrange a date with you for another time.
did he think i was blowing him out by saying iwas busy? Are they actually asking you out on a date or what? if a man asks you if your busy should you say , 'yes, but i'm free saturady' or would that be full on? was he just being polite asking me what i was up to at the wkend? so confused and once again i'm expecting you kind people to enlighten me!!!
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For more on marking an answer as the "Best Answer", please visit our FAQ.I'm with the majority on this, as a bloke, as this has happened to me before and I ALWAYS assume I'm being blown out.
It would be great for him to get a text from you suggesting a date - it doesn't mean you're going to jump into bed with him, but that you genuinely would like to see him again.
If he says no, he's busy, but then he suggest another time, then everything is OK. If he says "I'm busy" but won't suggest an alternative, then back off.
It's up to you now, not him- good luck!
LOL @ Gary !
It sounds very much like he was trying to ask you out on a second date. If he kept suggesting alternatives days you should have bitten the bullet and suggessted a time when you would have been available. Well, it's done now, so I agree with kirki, go ahead and send him a text / e-mail saying just that and try to arrange another time.
Good luck x
I have to agree with all that's been said - he must've felt like a right chump! He may never take the risk again - with anyone! Is it any wonder us blokes are frightened to ask you ladies out when you can be so (apparently) heartless? I know you didn't mean it, but dear oh dear...
Here's a tip for you, GraceAnais - although us blokes quite like to appear as macho brutes, inside we're quite fragile really... specially when you get a knock-back like that, that must've felt like a kick in the... well, you get the picture.