Does he like me? (1)

[sueking1]

I work alongside a real nice guy and we often have little 'chats', however on thursday our normal little 'chat' turned a bit saucy - we got onto the topic of the most daring places you've had sex. Anyway, I mentioned a few and so did he, and everything was as normal. He went back to his desk and I carried on with my work. I then went in his office a few minutes later and he asked why i hadnt replied to his email - to which i replied, I hadnt seen it yet..... anyway when i got back to my desk I checked out my unread emails - he was asking me what my favourite positions were! (I then realised why he was so desparate for me to read my mail. anyway, 2 seconds later and he was back in my office, making sure i had seen in, and probabley checking i wasnt offended. I couldnt say alot as my collegue was there too. Anyway I sent him a email back - nothing too rude, just a little flirty, and then he sent another basically saying he was turned on. It must have literally been about a milli-second from him sending it, and he comes into the office again, as me collegue was there he made out he was asking me to do some work for him.... once she left, he brought the subject back to one of my 'most daring places conversation' and called the guy a lucky git...... anyway, hes a flirty guy so i didnt take much notice.

[Upforit]

I (I am a bloke) would be wary of a guy who asks such personal stuff by email. Maybe I am bit old-fashioned, ( I am pushing 50, but lived my reckless years in the 70's, so am by no means a prude) but what happened to courtship? Any lady worthy of the title, in my humble opinion, should expect such things to be addressed after a few dates, not in the office, as casual chat! It sounds to me like he is after a 'good time' or he would show some restraint and ask you out. I think he wants the fun without the commitment. If you are happy with this relationship, as it stands, go ahead. I suggest caution. To answer your question, yes, I think he fancies you. But is it you he fancies, or your body? A subtle difference.

[samuel23]

hey sueking1, if you are both single and you are both right for each other why not go out for a few dates first - you'll soon find out if it's you or your body he's after. If he tries it on the first date, you say no and he dumps you the answers clear ~ and maybe he wasn't such a nice guy after all. On the other hand, if if sticks around and you start to enjoy each other's company why not? Do you often have 'little chats',or have you been flirting with him? Maybe he's got the wrong impression or he really does like you and this has broken the ice. He may have been wanting to ask you out for ages, but couldn't do it face to face because of company policy, office politics or shyness. Just coz he flirts doesn't mean he has the brass neck to ask you out.

[Mr C.Hawtrey]

Give him head and then he will like you