Loosing my head...

[SuDFB]

Its a bit of a long story so I will try and shorten it down...

Ive been living with my inlaws for 3years they are lovely never had a problem apart from her being overprotective of my husband...

Last year my father lost his lost and to help my parents out (so they wouldnt loose their home) I lent them all my saving which now they are back ont heir feet they are trying to save to pay me back....

Well last week my father in law lost his job and they tried to hide it from me my husband and my brother in law (who also lives with us). I overheard the inlaws talk about it and thats how I found out and I mentioned to them that we could 'help' untill he found a job...
Well now my mother in law is expecting the world and expects the money to be given...
Found out from my father in law that she has a huge money problem the extent of it is shoking (hence why they have no savings) and when I tried to talk to her about she goes mental...

My brother in law earns more then what he says he does so he doent have to help out... and I am loosing my head because as I lent money to my parents I only want to lend to my inlaws not give as its unfair...

My husband isnt taking this so well as his father has had enough and wants to leave and she is so thick she doesnt get whats happening to her everything is hanky dory...

I know the solution is to move out but I cant afford it at the moment but this really is affecting me and my husband...
How can I get out of this crap hole...

[sqad617]

Thank God you shortened it.
Sorry ...no solution fropm sqad.

[SuDFB]

Sorry it is still a bit long...

Thanks anyway :(

[ummmmmdedum]

You can't solve other peoples problems.....

[sqad617]

Hi zac...won at snooker and have just had a swim, so the old "engine" feels good at the moment.

[redcrx]

never lend anything you cant afford to lose.

[sqad617]

zac...you gota be joking......her little piece of delight comes out of a packet marked "Turkish"

[SuDFB]

thanks for the help :(