Hi loobie,
A couple of years ago, I made a scrapbook filled with photos and memories of their wedding day for a couple of friends of mine. The photos were taken by myself and other friends that were guests at the wedding, and many of them the bride and groom hadn't actually seen before. I had originally planned to give it to them sooner after the wedding, but it took a while to get everything together, so I kept it back and thought that it would fit in with the paper theme of the first anniversary. Perhaps you could do something similar - there are some really pretty scrapbooks/photo albums available and I'm sure that your other family members/friends would gladly make copies or let you have spare photos to put in it. You could also ask them for their favourite memories of the day, and then write these on pretty coloured papers and mount them in amongst the photos. It would be a really personal and unique gift.