Help from Answerbank ladies please

[4GS]

I need to know why Mrs 4GS reacted the way she did, Basically, her sister is gay and in a long term relationship. A couple of nights ago Mrs 4GS had a dream where, me, her, her sis and partner were all going somewhere in the 4GS car. Her and her sis got in the back of the car, I sat in the drivers seat and her sister's partner striped off all her clothes, sat on my lap and we drove of to our destination Can you explain why Mrs4GS was furious with me when she was telling me about the dream? Apparently I should have put up a fight and discouraged her sisters partner. In her dream Mrs4GS was fine about it, but she was furious with little old me the next morning!!! So ladies, over to you..

[bigmamma]

:-]

[~max~]

Well, what were you doing in her dream, first of all??? Why wasn't Bruce Willis or Johnny Depp there instead? I think you were being very inconsiderate! It's her personal space, and you don't have any right to invade it like that. Shame on you!

[andrea81]

Because we women can be very insecure at times and although you are not actually guilty of the crime, it his all about how she is feeling about it now.

If it was me, I would want you to reassure me about your feeling and do it with no sarcastic undertone or brush it off. Give her a big hug and tell her that in reality you would never had put up with it!

I know it's daft, but it's what she probably wants to hear! x x x x

[unrulyjulie]

lol 4GS, ive done the same, woke up angry at my ex cause he'd done something in my dream that i wasnt happy about! :-) Mind you, i didnt stay angry, when did this happen? If you say last week, then you were real bad in that dream.

Women eh?????? lol

[creampie]

stop bieng a nerd john. U should put her in her place. Nerdy john and his nerdy stories :) nerd!

[cazzz1975]

her dream stems from insecurity, she may be suffering from low self esteem and may feel the need or reassurance that you still find her sexy and attractive.

dreams can be a way for your subconcious to work through your deepest problems that you would normally keep hidden.

[cazzz1975]

max, bruce is busy ;D

[creampie]

sexy and attractive still. After so much time bumming in the army a horse would be sexy and atractive to john. Unless he really is a closet gay

[dot.hawkes]

Tut, that shows a lack of responsibiliy, does she not know that ypou could have crashed?? People should be more careful when behind the wheel it shows a lack of concern for other road users, and why didn;t you put this in motoring, Norman the dog would have been the best to advise you! : )

[logic]

C'MON jules, let's be knowing what you wern't happy about in your dream, My imagination's running riot :-)

[DONNAKEBABUK]

Lucky you to be in the dream in the first place 4GS.

Katie. x

[4GS]

The thing is, if I'd dreamed that a 22 year old lesbo had striped, sat an my lap and gyrated on me all the way on a car journey while Mrs 4GS and her sister watched and then told her about the dream she'd have gone ballistic, but it was her dream and she had a go at me, not the girl in question!!!!!

Bloody women, I'll never figure you lot out

[leelapops]

Nope, you certainly won't!
Take Andrea's advice, she has the nail on the head! Just tell Mrs4 that you love her and think she is very sexy, and appreciate that she wouldn't endanger a carful of people, unlike her sis' partner! x

[Jillius]

That is soooooooooo funny cos a few years ago I had a dream that my husband was bonking my mate and I didn't speak to him for a week !! Thing is with dreams they are sometimes so realistic that I can't remember if I actually dreamt it or if it actually happened.

[China Doll]

Recently I dreamt my mother slapped my face, I rowed with all my closest friends and my ex who I still care a lot about (good friends) was evil to me. I had to physically restrain myself from calling all the bar stewards involved and giving them a piece of my mind, I was absolutely devastated. And the ex made the mistake of calling me and I told him my 'funny' dream story and apparently the tone in my voice was glacey!

[mrs_overall]

Mr O has read this one. It confirms his theory that whatever goes wrong in life, the husband is always to blame.

[logic]

Don't be so slushy leelapops,

[unrulyjulie]

lol logic! just the usual sort of things. Once in a dream i caught my first husband behind a door having his wicked way with my best mate. It woke me up and i whacked him one! :-) luckily he was a very heavy sleeper and didnt wake up! Just felt real when i immediately woke up.