Hi kitten_uk2. My hubby and I are also trying for a baby. I was referred to the gyn clinic then onto the fertility clinic, where it was discovered I wasn't ovulating. Normal ovulation is around day 14. The doctor at the gyn clinic recommended that we should make love every day from day 10 - 18 of my cycle to maximise our chances. The first day of your period is day 1. I usually bleed for 4 days, so day 10 is 6 days after my period is finished. I am taking medication to make me ovulate. I am ovulating now, but no luck with a pregnancy yet. Try not to get too obsessed about it, because the more relaxed you are, the better your chances. I know this sounds quite confusing, but it's the best way I can explain it. Good luck and have lots of fun trying!