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ok I think I get that. unfortunately I have so much music that I have put on iTunes myself that there isn't enough space in I cloud without paying for it, I have 5gb which is not enough and I absolutely refuse to pay apple for any more than I have paid already. so I-cloud not an option. that leaves me with how to stop these messages going to everybody on this apple id. I have no idea how to set up another one, this was done when we bought our ipad years ago, in the apple shop, and I admit I have never had to set up other. when my sister bought her ipad, she wanted all my music on it, to save having to do it all again, so she just uses our apple id. presumably all our messages are going to her as well!!! although she doesn't have an iphone and she only uses facebook messenger which I always thought was the same so there you go. just shows how much I know. my husband's phone though only has ios7 so not sure how that fits in with my phone upgrade to ios8. if I decide to set up an apple account for myself on my phone how do I get it unlogged from the current id, and logged to the new one. and will all the music I have on it then disappear. it is actually in the phones memory.