Is He Playing??Feeling Confused And Foolish

Milkjuggles | 17:59 Sat 09th Mar 2024 | Family & Relationships

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In September 2023, a man from my neighborhood and I began communicating and occasionally meeting up. Our busy schedules, with him working 8-12 hours a day and me being unemployed due to disability and caring for my elderly mother, limited our time together. Throughout our interactions, we've encountered challenges and at times cut off communication, only to reconnect later. He has expressed admiration for my character and aspirations for a future together, including marriage and starting a family. We've both shared feelings of affection for each other.

However, after our two instances of intimacy, he has cut off communication, ghosting me each time. The first instance was six months ago, where he later apologized, citing insecurities about his performance. Recently, after our second encounter, he has again gone silent despite my attempts to reach out.

Our relationship has primarily revolved around texting and occasional brief meetings. He has been understanding of my busy schedule and has always been supportive and caring, frequently checking in on me. Despite this, I'm now questioning the authenticity of his intentions. Last week, I noticed him with other people at his house, despite his usual eagerness to spend time with me. He denies any involvement with other women, but his behavior suggests otherwise.

During an argument, he mentioned meeting women online, but later claimed it was an attempt to make me jealous. This inconsistency, along with his constant online activity, raises doubts about his honesty and sincerity.

I'm left wondering if he's using me for physical intimacy or seeking validation. His actions and words are conflicting, leaving me confused and considering ending the relationship altogether.