Help Needed

[zknight]

what do you do when a 4 yr friendship goes down that pan twice over men?

my ex-best mate has a baby, my god son.

and with info she can distroy my work life.

what has happened is not my fult i tried looking out for her but with her only being 19 still isn't grown up yet! do i walk away from her as she has really hurt me or be the one to go crawling like i did last time.

[CompNut]

zknight, I'm sorry to hear you are feeling upset and worried over your ex-friend. As she has really hurt you in the past I think it would be best to keep away from her. You don't want to keep being hurt by her. Later on, if she values your friendship she will no doubt try and contact you. Then it'll be up to you whether you give her a second chance or not to be friends again. Had she tried to steal a boyfriend away from you, or told lies about you or the boyfriends?
I know it is very upsetting when a pal treats you badly, but don't let it get you down. Concentrate on your other pals.
Best wishes.

[dancealot13]

zknight- Thank you for posting a question, but it is very difficult to give you an educated opinion if there arnt more detail given. How she hurt? What work life has to do with it? Why is it not your fault at all because you were a part of the conflict also?

What she did to hurt you, and how she justified her actions to you is very relevent.

I would love to hear more.