Hey, sweetie, I'm back now. It could have been worse - just think, you may have been at Mr Ravenhair's mad parents' house where we had to endure the annual ritual of opening the most bizarre selection of Christmas presents and feigning delight. This year we all got, among other things, a jar of honey, a pack of muesli bars and a John Denver Greatest Hits tape. Seriously, though, sft42, most people have had at least one vile Christmas in their lives - it will get better and you know you have "friends" here if you want to rant about anything. RaveXXX