lol at docklands, as a (female) ex multi-tasker, i too used to wonder why men couldnt cook dinner, clean the kitchen and sort the laundry out while holding a baby and doing older kids homework with them coz i was doing all of it all day every day. a change of man helped that particular situation. the new man is just as single minded and focussed on one thing at a time, but he manages to get everything done. i am now a convert to this method of doing one thing and doing justice to it before moving on to the next thing, it is a much less stressful way of life. it involves a selfishness that doesnt come naturally to most women, especially mothers, but it can be learned :-D