It's actually Dave Glover, the bass player from Slade 2, and he should not be confused with the wonderful Jimmy Lea. I believe he opted out of the marriage after the mass of adverse publicity he attracted, and I also believe he is no longer with the band - they booted him out when his postal courtship came to their attention.
EXCUSE ME......... I am one of those Bass players .... Thank you. ; ) Anyways who cares what she looks like she and her late husband buried their children under their patio for gods sake!
It does freak me out how someone can fall in love with her after all the horrific things she's done. Even if she denies those, she was absolutely WICKED to her children. That wouldn't make me go all gooey and romantic over her if I was a bloke.