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Ok, thanks or all your replies, I took your advice and I asked my boyfriend straight out if he was cheating on me, and he said he would never do that. We've been together for 2 yrs (not living together) and I just don't get why he would say he was doing something then do or go somewhere else, he has done it before, he even tried to hide the fact he went to his mates house the other night and I spoke to his mate about it and he couldn't understand why he would do that. It's like he's just telling me pointless little lies and I always end up thinking the worse.
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For more on marking an answer as the "Best Answer", please visit our FAQ.Thanks for coming back on this Linz. Your boyfriend may assume you would be annoyed if he did things you saw as a waste of his time, or spending time with his friends you may ot approve of. Stupid, but it's a man thing. Explain to him that you;d rather have the truth that get embroiled in silly story-telling which simply plants worms of distrust and is very destructive. Genuine trust is a seriously attractive quality in a woman, one most men would be very silly to betray, so hopefully you can convince him to be honest, and you can both get on with your lives without inecessary worrying. Good luck.
I agree with janetex - i think he is lying to you and possibly cheating on you - maybe he has a secret other than infidelity ? My girlfriend distrusts everything i do - so in the end i tell lies to keep her happy as she doesnt like the truth - maybe thats whats happened and BTW its a slippery slippery slope to the pit of split . be careful how you approach this - scorned boys/men make very bad sports when they've been found out. Good luck
In short - an old girlfriend that ive known since i was 13 got back in touch and suggested a beer / meal . . . So i said that i was seeing a mate of mine she didnt really like thus i wouldnt be caught out as she doesnt talk to him - and so she never knew that id had a beer with this old mate (who was a girl) a case of " what you dont know cant hurt you"