why is it so hard for bigger lads to get girlfriends

[DPSA]

in my experience it is very hard for bigger lads to find girlfriends but bigger ladies dont have as many problems finding boyfriends.

are women really that shollow or is it men that will go for anything with a pulse?

why is it so hard to big lads to find girlfriends?

[:Ace:]

I think some women can be that shallow but I don't think most are.

My uncle is HUGE and he goes out with quite a slim woman. He's got a sparkling personality and is dead funny so she must go out with him for that rather than his physical attractiveness.

[lil123]

Hi there!
I think if you going out thinking you wont get talking to any girls than that is probably what will happen
I think if you can just relax and just try chatting in general to the opposite sex without thinking you need too in order to get a girlfriend, you will relax even more
Look at it as practice
I personally would rather a nice bloke just chat at first rather than the usual crap some blokes come out with that would win with me everytime
Just be yourself and the right girl will come along
I am single too but lost a lot of weight but even when I was bigger i never had a problem talking to blokes
I am practicing at the moment just chatting with blokes in general as I used to be petrified of this
Please try it it works!
Good luck mate x

[mirela]

lots people are shallow no matter boys or girls, but i do believe personality is something could last must longer than appearance. also confidence is very important to make a person more attractive. hth.

[liquidspace]

Give me a larger man anyday!
I would never go out with a skinny man.
I find I am attracted to men with meat on them.
There is someone for everyone.
x

[DPSA]

as a bigger lad and having a few bigger friends i have found that they all struggle to find girlfriends. i myself have a girlfriend but i also found it hard to attract women.

i was just curious to see what other people thought about it and their experience with it.

[ChocolatChip]

It really depends on what you prefer and how confident the person is. For example, my partner never really had girlfriends. He's not very confident at all, and is exceptionally skinny, not even muscle-y.
I'm really picky about my guys and I really don't like bigger lads, never have and doubt I ever will. I love very very very skinny lanky guys.
Some bigger girls I know, have a lot of confidence, flaunt it and get lots of boyfriends or at least admirers, and some other bigger girls I know, lack confidence, and never go out with any guys.

[DONNAKEBABUK]

I used to be a BIG lady and have recently lost 10 stones with GB surgery. When I was BIG I preferred BIG Men and now I am slim, I STILL prefer BIG men !

Skinny Men are such a turn off.

I like a man who is vivacious, funny, enchanting, warm hearted and charming - always usually found in the larger man for some reason.

Its all about confidence.

Katie. x

[loublou1971]

'pudding belly' is his nick name, he's not really big, just nice soft bits to cuddle up to. I love a bigger man.

You just have not found the right girl yet.