Confused!

[Kymrobo81]

Hi all, Im a bit confused really. I had a Miscarriage at 10 weeks Preg the end of May + was advised not to TTC until iv had my 1st Period (Which started on Fri). Now that i know as soon as the bleedin stops, i am able to try again, i dnt know if i feel ready to be Pregnant again just yet, but at the same time i really want to be! (Which is why im confused!) I think just when i think il wait a bit longer, i hear that some 1 else is Pregnant ( 2 friends in the last 2 days) + then i think, yeah, i really want to be aswell... Dnt know what to do??! Then iv thort, well maybe not try for a Baby, but just let it happen when it happens, (Just not use Contraception!) Has any 1 else ever been in a similar sitchuation? x x

[bednobs]

now im confused isnt deliberatey doing sex without contraception trying for a baby then?

[Kymrobo81]

Suppose your right Bednobs, yeah it is! But what i meant by that was, not actively try eg Ovulation Dates, temps etc. Altho by not using Contraception, then i am bound to fall Pregnant sooner or later! This is why i sent the post in to AB - Sorry if it is Confusing you as you read it, as much as i am confused!

[Ice.Maiden]

Sorry to hear about your miscarriage Kymrobo. I suppose it's natural for some people in your position to want to try again as soon as possible, but don't do it just because your friends are pregnant. It might be best to leave it for a while hun. Let your body heal, and get in the correct frame of mind first. Babies aren't supposed to be a lottery - e.g., if one comes along, it does, if it doesn't - it doesn't matter. There are far too many unwanted children, and they need a lot of love from secure parents, to enusre they grow up into happy and well-balanced people. I wish you the best of luck in whatever you decide. x

[Kymrobo81]

Ice Maiden, Thankyou so much for your reply, it made alot of sense! x x