seadragon... thank you
i dont think mohammeds reaction was to do with a perceotion of beer swilling layabouts...no father would want their daughter with a lad who did all that stuff, regardless of colour...i think his reaction was more deep seated than merely seeing a few bad eggs late at night.
i think he was basically racist and took part in the show either for the hell of it -he was obviously pretty arrogant and probably wanted to show his mates how hes the king of his castle.
i dont think he was truly open to the message they were trying to portray... he had no intention of changing his attitude... it is easy to polite to a kindly old lady, but as soon as faced with anything more thought provoking, he couldnt handle the scrutiny...his violent storm out showed there was more to it... and yes he probably was one of these lads i mentioned...
the proble with shows like this is that they prove nothing as the people who agree to be involved are already 'halfway there', and clearly people who are open and want to change things and are of the better natured of people... they do not show the people who are fiercely racist and abusive...and who nothing will change their opinions - on both sides.
they considered a white b!tch as a badge of honour ... one lad barged up to my lone friend, and put his hand on her belly, rubbed it a bit and leered ' mmm ripe'...
she was understandably terrified and ran away ... there were many incidents.
they know whites are a minority in that particular area and enjoy the power they feel it gives them.
( just to note that of course not every single asian person i met was bad and had issues, many i am sure were perfectly nice... i just didnt see very many of them... even the politeness was perfunctory... i am very polite in shops, as i worked behind a til... and to have someone not make eye contact with you, not sepak just take your cash and stare ahead... and when asked an question would just either point or shrug and mumble at you - almost every day - then to watch then become animated when serving an asian person - was pretty rude)