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Sharing a black bin
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This is a bit silly but here goes. I live on my own and recycle my cans etc. in the blue bin which isn't a problem, but the amount of rubbish I get (tea bags and chip paper etc.) is so small it doesn't even fill a carrier bag in two weeks, so what I do is that I wait while the neighbours put their bin out and then I put my carrier bag in one of their bins.
The trouble is my neighbours don't like it and sometimes I come out of my front door to find a pile of rubbish on my doorstep.
My questions are these
1. Am I doing wrong? I admit I haven't asked them.
2. Am I committing an offence?
3. Are my neighbours committing an offence by littering. As I understand it bins are there to have rubbish put into them, but to take rubbish out and put it by someone's front door surely has to be an offence. They even put rubbish on my step that is not mine.
I feel I would like to stand my ground and I had an enormous row with them yesterday because two of them like to think they own the drive and I feel that if I give into them, my life won't be worth living.
The bin men simply tip the rubbish out of one bin into another anyway and then simply empty the one bin into the back of the lorry.
What course of action do you think I should take, I could use my bin but it seems so silly and I am 68 years of age but fairly fit. Answers appreciated.
Thanks.
The trouble is my neighbours don't like it and sometimes I come out of my front door to find a pile of rubbish on my doorstep.
My questions are these
1. Am I doing wrong? I admit I haven't asked them.
2. Am I committing an offence?
3. Are my neighbours committing an offence by littering. As I understand it bins are there to have rubbish put into them, but to take rubbish out and put it by someone's front door surely has to be an offence. They even put rubbish on my step that is not mine.
I feel I would like to stand my ground and I had an enormous row with them yesterday because two of them like to think they own the drive and I feel that if I give into them, my life won't be worth living.
The bin men simply tip the rubbish out of one bin into another anyway and then simply empty the one bin into the back of the lorry.
What course of action do you think I should take, I could use my bin but it seems so silly and I am 68 years of age but fairly fit. Answers appreciated.
Thanks.
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0lly, if you want to stand your ground, that's up to you.
Personally I wouldn't care if someone put their one wee bag of rubbish in my bin - but I'm not your neighbour.
It just seems to me that you are getting rather het up about this - the easiest solution in my (and other's) opinion would be to just use your own bin.
But as I said earlier, it appears that...
It just seems to me that you are getting rather het up about this - the easiest solution in my (and other's) opinion would be to just use your own bin.
But as I said earlier, it appears that...
16:34 Thu 22nd Nov 2012
Good grief, 0lly!
If you had done the right thing in the first place and ASKED your neighbour if it would be OK to use their bin, they may have said yes and you wouldn't have this problem.
YOU caused this bad feeling between you and them.
If you want to spend the rest of your life bitter about where you put your bag of rubbish every week, then that really is such a sad state of affairs.
If you had done the right thing in the first place and ASKED your neighbour if it would be OK to use their bin, they may have said yes and you wouldn't have this problem.
YOU caused this bad feeling between you and them.
If you want to spend the rest of your life bitter about where you put your bag of rubbish every week, then that really is such a sad state of affairs.
albaqwerty. You would have to see the driveway to understand. It is one long hedge and while I was doing mine I did the others. No-one has complained and I have been doing it for at least ten years and nobody even comes out to help sweep up or clear the rubbish away and that gives me a real headache, So I put it in my bin over a period of weeks.
aah I see. I think you're neighbours might be taking you for granted then.
However, I still think it would have been best to have asked them. Anne has made a good point. Do the bin men come at a regular time? if so, pop out 5/10mins before they arrive and talk the bag for a walk and accidentally on purpose leave it in a bin.
Are they superstrict that the bin-lid is firmly shut?
However, I still think it would have been best to have asked them. Anne has made a good point. Do the bin men come at a regular time? if so, pop out 5/10mins before they arrive and talk the bag for a walk and accidentally on purpose leave it in a bin.
Are they superstrict that the bin-lid is firmly shut?
albaqwerty. Yes the bin-men are superstrict about the lid being down and I would never cause anyone a problem. I just think people are horrible, I am only sorry it has taken me so long to realise.
I will wait till the bin-men come and give it to them. I only hope they don't ask me to put it in a bin.
I will wait till the bin-men come and give it to them. I only hope they don't ask me to put it in a bin.
A couple of christmases ago an old lady near me opened her black bin to find it crammed full of wrapping paper and packaging...someone had been after dark knowing she was on her own & had little rubbish. Her only gripe was that they didn't ask first!
That said, I do have some sympathy..When I had older neighbours we shared all kinds of small chores, even though it was 'the blind leading the blind' :). As they passed away and younger ones arrived I've found if you do anything that benefits them they let you carry on with no thanks or return...
Go back to putting your own rubbish in your own bin...but one day your neighbours just might need to put something in yours one day....
That said, I do have some sympathy..When I had older neighbours we shared all kinds of small chores, even though it was 'the blind leading the blind' :). As they passed away and younger ones arrived I've found if you do anything that benefits them they let you carry on with no thanks or return...
Go back to putting your own rubbish in your own bin...but one day your neighbours just might need to put something in yours one day....
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