Does My Friend Have Feelings For Me?

[blackswan20]

Does my friend have feelings for me?I met this guy a few years ago at a drama class and I see him often with the other friends I've made. Recently we've started to have sex after nights out. The bad thing is - i'm in a relationship which my friend knows i'm not happy with. My friend holds my hand during and after sex, he cuddles me, he even goes for round two in the morning. Please tell me this doesn't mean he has strong feelings for me. I'll be breaking up with my boyfriend soon, but would like to keep what I have with my friend casual. What advise do people have?

[grasscarp]

No this doesn't necessarily mean he has strong feelings for you. He is enjoying sex which presumably you are as well. He may or may not have deeper feelings. As for the future - It may become something more . Who knows.

[boxtops]

You have a boyfriend as well as this guy you're having sex with?

[woofgang]

How old are you?

[anneasquith]

ensure you use contraception..........he holds your hand during and after sex............nice!

[sandyRoe]

Indeed. It's nice to hear that romance isn't dead.

[sandrajo]

Holding hands during sex? I hope you mean fingers crossed!!

[anneasquith]

daisy don't talk to sandy like that . :) :)

[craft1948]

I'd want more than my hand holding.............

[sandyRoe]

Twice in one night? Those were the days.
"And it takes u all night to do what u used to do all night
You're the oldest swinger in town.."

[Jeza]

How things have changed. To have sex with one person was thought wrong outside of marriage but two at the same time............ To quote Maurice Chevalier "I'm glad I'm not young any more.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_RZEj7t1EaA

[choux]

Hmmmm, I am wondering which of the 4 sub sections this should really come under?

A) possibly
B) if he dances the 2 step
c) do you meet in different places?
D) probably the least likely of options

In answer to your question, I think you are more than half way to being casual.

[Canary42]

///My friend holds my hand during and after sex,///

Is that during sex with your boyfriend ? How sweet and understanding !

[barba]

I have advise to stop cheating and decide what man do you want. What does it mean that you will break up with your boyfriend 'soon'? Why not 'now'? Your friend actually can have crush on you, so if you want just to have sex with him, stop it. Now.

[ummmm]

So this question is so far removed from reality that it must be trolling?

It happens...