Spoke to Boyfriend last night about text messages

[boozie80]

Morning - thanks to everyone that helped me out with advice yesterday. I spoke to my partner when I got home from work, explained what I'd done and why I'd done it, and that I'd seen something that had really worried me....he did have a very good explanation, which I won't go into here but it was all very innocent and he actually wasn't upset with me at all for looking at his phone - he said I can do it any time because he has nothing at all to hide from me.

I feel so much better, he does understand why I find it hard to trust him and is going to be a lot more open with me about things in order to help me out.

Thanks again so much, this is the first time I've posted on this site and the response was brilliant.

[ineedahobby]

So happy that it wasnt bad news boozie, All the luck in the world to both of you x

[Octavius]

Glad to hear it, sounds like you have found one of the decent chaps - theres only a few of us in this world!

[metagirl]

great to hear it was a good response. and good luck to you and your man!

[andy hughes]

Fantastic news - and thanks for sharing it with us - we are a caring community here - I can vouch for that from personal experience.

[Englishbird]

Ah, that's cheered me up today.  I'm really pleased for you, tried to post to your question yesterday but my computer was having a funny five minutes.

He sounds lovely and that was the absolute best thing that he could have said.

I have a lot of hang ups after being treated rather badly for a long period of time, don't beat yourself up.  Emotional wounds take time to heal just like physical ones. Good luck :o)

[Wispy68]

That's brilliant! I was really worried for you when I read your post today, but am very pleased that your mind has been put at rest. Lots of luck to you both. x

[irisred]

Hey, sounds like you've got yourself a great one there!

Hope everything goes really well for both of you!

Red xx