Would I Be A Bad Person For Not Messaging This Bully?

[Cindy1302]

I was playing an online game last night with an 11 year old and some guy. They were both pretty nice to eacthother but at one point we were playing on a team and the 11 year old forgot to heal herself over and over again and the guy was like "you better heal yourself lol . Everytime I look at you you're at half health. You're so dumb lol" or "so dumb" something like that. He said it under his breath. I didnt say anything at the time but I was thinking of messaging this guy and having a word with him. I dont want to but I feel it may be the right thing to do. Would I be a bad person if I didnt?

[Bobbisox1]

Sorry, what does ‘heal yourself’ mean?

[Cindy1302]

"Heal yourself" as in heal yourself so you don't die.

[Bobbisox1]

Err okay :0(

[Mamyalynne]

I would either avoid the guy totally or remind him that when adults are playing such games alongside children humiliation is unnecessary and unkind.

[Arksided]

Bobbi Replenish the health of the character she was playing.

I get a little tetchy when on on-line gaming but to an 11yr old well out of order.

[Bobbisox1]

Gosh I’m well old then haha

[Cindy1302]

So I should say something or..

[Zacs-Master]

Move on.

[joko]

is he someone you want to play with again & keep things civil? if youre not bothered just msg him then block.
you dont have to have a go at him, just say to keep in mind its a child etc - maybe even find something online - an article of phrase etc and just send that and dont say anything