A definitive moment in your life........

[Craig007]

If, when you die, and i hope its a long time in the future for everyone here, you could have one moment in your life replayed on a big screen for you as you make your way to heaven what would it be? Your first kiss? A sporting moment? Asking someone to marry you, or being asked for your hand in marriage? I emphasize the word moment here as there is a whole number of questions that can asked about this.

I know this was asked a month ago but hey i am gonna ask it again! :o)

[Aliceband]

A few things there for me Craig. But the one that sticks in my mind is the birth of my first child. And the feeling of happiness, wonderment (and mostly relief!)

[bobis]

HI, i would love 2 things, first off to see the postman walk up to my door the day he brought me my divorce papers (i really am not bitter, she only cheated on me when she went out each weekend) secondly, i would love to see the births of my 2 kids again (with my second wife, who does not go out at the weekends, ho ho ) I was lucky enough to be present at both births, but the feeling from a fathers point is awsum , all the best and by the way a nice question to ask, keep them coming.

[whiskeysheri]

Hey craig! I don't even have children yet, but I know already, without a doubt, my answer would be the same as Aliceband's. xxx

[Rubyrose]

I am only 21 so I am hoping that the best is yet to come but if I had to choose a moment right that has already passed? I don't think I could pick just one. I have a 'special' moment spent with my ex (nothing sexual, but personal) that I would like to see again. Or anytime spent between 1998 and 2001 with my best mate before she moved away.

[Craig007]

Tempted to give you both 3 stars for your answers, but i will wait til the B&S regulars get up tomorrow and see what the have to give. Goodnight. :o)

[Craig007]

Blimey there are some people up late tonight!! Sheri thats cheating, u gotta pick 1 of ur own please. And Ruby a moment is hardly 3 years is it!? *tut*

Goodnight again. :o)

[spk]

Like lovely Ruby- my best is yet to come I hope but if it was right now it would need to be a diving trip I had in the great barrier reef. Absolutely beautiful. Great question !

[Rubyrose]

Craig... Its my moment.. and I'll be damned if I am gonna waste it on you lot.. Lol ;o)

[Rubyrose]

Oh I just got what you meant. I said ANY moment between 1998 and 2001. Suprise me when I get there. Any moment spent with her would be nice to see again.

[whiskeysheri]

Okay, okay, Craig! :o)

Mine would be the first time my niece recognised me (she's the light of my life), she was about four months old and her face just lit up (she hadn't done it for my sister or her partner).

We're now pretty much inseperable, and I'll never forget that day. My heart nearly burst! xxx

[kazminx]

hey i think this question was put very nice and tender...you have a way with words...i guess i would have to say the last moment i spent holding my fathers lovely hand when he passed away...i always loved his hands. i took a long hard look at them...his nails..he was an artist and i thought about all he had created..i also loved his tatoos..i thought about how i would never see them again...i never cry about it because it meant something special...and i now dont see death (til now anyway) as sad...i know it aint always like this but very special...thanks for reminding me...k

[monroe]

For me it has to be the first time I held my grandson. All the joy, and no worries how we would be able to support him.

[Scarlett]

A performance I did at my 6th form show, me and my sister doing 2 characters which we STILL write now. The audience (the whole school and all the teachers) were laughing after practically every word we said. And then when we did the song.... At that point (16) I thought I was going to be a comedienne, and this was just the beginning. Didn't realise how hard life was gonna be though. That was as good as it got!

[kazzianne]

Mine would be the moment I found the strength to tell my violent husband to go.

He had put me in hospital countless times,locked me in the house,smashed my fone so I couldnt contact the outside world,and every time I pressed charges with the police he talked me into dropping them - or else.

One day he stamped on my back and nearly broke it - to cut a long story short he was arrested,released on bail,and as he cockily walked up the path yet again I just looked at him and the penny dropped.

So I told him to go,and at that second I didnt care if he hit me again because something in my head changed - I wasnt scared of him anymore.And I will never ever forget the look on his face when he realised that after 5 yrs he no longer had control.

[kick3m0n]

wow, great question Craig (give yourself 3 stars mate :o))...some very powerful and moving answers.

Mine would undoubtedly be the moment my son was born. I'd want to relive all the feelings and emotions and see the things I didn't spot at the time, because there was so much going on.

[kick3m0n]

Craig....what would yours be?

[loobie]

Mine would be the moment I saw my newborn nephew 3 1/2 years ago. He was back at home with my sis and her husband, fast asleep in his moses basket and he was just the most beautiful thing I had ever seen. I burst into tears at the sight of his beauty. He is the apple of my eye and I absolutely adore him. I'm like his second mum (my brother in law wanted me to move in with them as I was the only one that could get my nephew to sleep!!!) He's the most precious thing in my world and i would do anything to protect him.

[Pippa68]

Mine would be the birth of my 3rd child (the previous 2 had been too horrific to remember!)

She was born at home, with my husband present & soon after the birth my other children came in to see her..we were sitting there not talking, just looking at her and each other & grinning :o)

It was wonderful.

[Amara]

Good morning everyone - firstly I would like to say how touched I was reading the post by kazminx. I was going to say the first time I saw my husband, but I replay that in my mind every day when I open my eyes and see him again, so it would have to be the look on my friends face that same day when I told her that he was my destiny about 30 seconds after I met him, she thought I had completely lost my marbles!

[soozmac]

wow, all your answers make mine seem really bland....

My moment would be when I awoke on a bus from Brisbane to Sydney, just as we started crossing the harbour bridge. I sleepily opened my eyes, and found myself gazing out across the harbour towards the Opera House, with the tall buildings of the CBD in the background. I'd been in Australia for 5 months already and had seen and done amazing things (diving on the Reef, watching the sunset at Uluru, bathing at waterfalls in Kakadu, swimming with dolphins in Byron Bay), but seeing that view is something I will never ever forget. I am so happy that I sat on the left-hand side of the bus. If I'd sat on the right, I'd never have had it.