eons ago some of you may remember my mother was diagnosed with cancer this was after being almost crippled by a stroke on top of crumbling vertebra. since then the routine has been to travel up every couple of weeks with a sister or twoand sit by a bedside waiting for the inevitable. three times we have been called to the hospital or hospice and told that she is about to pop her clogs . she has suffered 3 different cancers had 3 strokes, the radiotherapy on the cancer down below caused a massive perforation of the bowel and the massive amounts of painkiller caused her blood pressure to plummet [understarters orders again] . and each time ive been sitting by her bed thinking " i wonder if i dare nip out for a fag " all this and my mam has slowly been going gaga'er and gaga'er. jelly brained well 3 weeks ago a young consultant looked past all the drugs and realised apart from a few reading and writing / memory problems caused by the strokes and the wheelbarrow full of drugs she was being fed - the cancer which has dominated our lives has all but gone , she has spent a few weeks going cold turkey like but its like ive got me ma back its unbeleivable ive just got back with my youngest [he has never failed to be by my side every visit] andwatched her cuddling him and stroking his face, just soaking him up [he's 14 by the way not 2 ]. she looked up and said "how long have i been poorly cos ive just found me happy" am i a millionaire or what?
Hey you :-) I'm so happy for you. i can't even put it into words. You, as one of my fav on here ever ever !!! Big smiles and kisses from me dilfy xxxxxxxxxxxxx
theres my getting all emotional ummmm and you have to lower the tone by giving me a big stiffy- behave yourself girl dont you know when to switch irresistable off.
get to bed its late -
hang on im coming with you
any chance of a honalulu or am i pushing my luck xxxxx
i don't think that there is anything in this world that can't be beaten by will and determination dilf
i'm happy for you
God bless you and you're family
that big swelling may be me.
i think its the longest day/ solstice/ druid thing that has made me appreciate the beautiful and grow my hair [fat chance]
how do you fancy a two man tent at glastonbury ummmm .
Was so pleased to read your story, dilf. I'm delighted for all of you.
Right now I really need to believe that miracles can happen and your story proves that they do.
Hope things just keep getting better and better for you all. x