Don't you just hate it when...

[jennyjen02]

you're really hung up on someone that you can't have, and you know for a fact that one day not so far away, you'll look back and wonder what you ever saw in that person, but you just can't wait to feel that sense of indifference?

That's happened for me for every single person I've ever felt, and I just want to get over the current person that I really really like.

Just wanted to know that other people have felt that same way before and got through it? It's a horrible feeling. Just needing some reassurance!

[lajohn]

Possibly something is wrong with your attitude hence you're experiencing this with everyone you've met so far. Maybe it's time you reflect on your inner-self and examine your behaviour.

[jennyjen02]

Ok, thank you :)

[jennyjen02]

Oh, just realised I made a stupid typo. I meant to say I want to feel like that about ever person i've ever felt like this about, people that I can't have. It says 'felt' not 'met' but I obviously missed a few words out.

[jennyjen02]

Okay, I'll start that again!

For every person in the past that I've ever wanted but couldn't have, I have gotten over them and felt that indifference, and I'm looking forward to feeling that sense of indifference towards the current person!

Completely misinterpreted that john, sorry, my fault!

[cazzz1975]

Its natural to experience stronger feelings of yearning for something you cannot have.

[Octavius]

You said it cazz, and I keep tellin ya, I aint available.

[4GS]

Yep I know exactly what you mean, and I'll tell you this:

Sarah Jane Honeywell will rue the day she got that restraining order put on me!!

[China Doll]

Well the indifference will come, give it time.

I don't think it's anything to wish for though to be honest.

[cazzz1975]

yes I know and you dont realise how much that burns me up, I will gladly karate chop the missus for you?

[Octavius]

That wouldn't be fair, she's having a number 2

[rcl1]

Yep, can sympathise completely. Been there way too many times. Currently getting over someone that seemed to be perfect but is now on the 'not to be pile'. They ain't the first and probably won't be last. Chin up and move on looking forward to whatever is next around the corner. Easier said than done i know but we will get there in the end, and if they can make you feel like poo, they they ain't the right one for you. The wrong person will upset you, and the right person will do everything in their power to not upset you.

[cazzz1975]

well me and my bicep are available anytime oct ;D

[Octavius]

Have I interpreted your offer of a hand in/correctly?

[cazzz1975]

:O ....I only offer a trouble free thumping service

[jennyjen02]

Haha

I know, it's not good for me to wish for that feeling and I know it's no way of moving forward. I just wanted some reassurance from people who have felt the same

cheers!

[pauliwauli2]

I've been in this situation so many times that it's actually untrue, and I'm only 18! lol. The feeling WILL pass. Soon, you'll look back and wonder what you ever saw in him/her.

[joggerjayne]

jennyjen02

You're not alone.

I'm another of those people who can feel too much for people. I sometimes want someone so much that I think I will just die without them. But then ... the end of the week comes around, my pals take me out and get me p*ssed and tell me I'm a silly mare, and the next day I feel okay.

Even when you have got someone who you think is Mr Right, (like my ex, Pencil Dick), you sometimes wake up and look back, and think you must have been mad to get so hung up on somebody.

We've all been there babes, some of us more than others. I'll post something about Brighton Rock in a few minutes. That might cheer you up. I'll make it naughty for you.

(thinks ... how???)

J xx

[tigerlily11]

So true Jayne.

[pauliwauli2]

Thank you guys! Your answers have actually cheered me up so much.

[pauliwauli2]

(oops, just realised i didn't mention i was in the exact same position lol)