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I see it's handbags-at-dawn time jno, and no, I don't usually waste time answering stupid questions but I'll make an exception, just this once.
If he were my son, like anyone else's, NOTHING would bring him back. By this constant reference to the incident his family must be going through hell everytime they switch on the telly or read a newspaper. After the three years since, they should be able to just see a light at the end of their long tunnel of suffering, but no, they're still caught in the media limelight.
Whoever was to blame, if indeed anyone was, is a seperate issue, and as I said in my original post, this can be continued in privacy with solicitors acting on behalf of the family to ensure everything was above board.
They've never been able to grieve in private so the pain must be as bad now as it was then. By taking it out of the public gaze they could perhaps start to rebuild their lives.
And would I feel the same if he were my son? TOO RIGHT I WOULD.
There. Wasn't difficult was it?