Is my boyfriend weird?

[kellysoyer]

I'm 22 and my boyfriend, Ryans is 23. We ar ein a relationship and it's going good apart from when we have sex, he always closes his eyes, is this normal!!? It has never happened to any of my mates and none of my previous partners did this either, has it happened to any of you or anyone you know or do any of you do it?? Please let me know, i am so confused and kinda freaked out, why does he do this, none of my mates know, so i'm kinda stuck. :S !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!  HELP  !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[surfer_dude]

I never do this when i am in bed with some one, it is kinda weird actually. I don't have any suggestions for you. Sorry. Other people will help you tho

[georgit79]

What do you mean, he always closes his eyes? The whole time, or just during climax?? I wouldn't worry about it too much, it doesn't sound life/relationship-threatening or anything. Why don't you just ask him?

[saucyNsweet]

Yeah just ask him. But it sounds like he could be fantisising about someone maybe. Picturing it in his head or sumthing.

[kellysoyer]

He has his eyes closed pretty much all the time, during climax aswell. i think he might be thinking of some one else, someone famous or sumthing, someone he fancies. I cnt ask him, way to embarassing

[edypiehands]

He could be just thinking of sumthing that was previously on tv or sumthing or sumthing he had seen shortly earlier. Lots of people do this. For example what did you watch on the night he did this.???

[kellysoyer]

He has done this for ages. 3 months, but mostly lat night, friday. we watched The simpson, french and saunders and wwf.????

[surfer_dude]

mmmm, french and saunders. Jennifer is so fit, i jsut want to shag her hard and long. She i so so soooooo hot. her tits are well nice. big and juicy and her ass is amazing too, how can she be so fine...............maybe he was fantising about her, my mate did once u know, men tlk about this kinda stuff, ask on of Ryans mates...see if he said anything about it..my mate thoguht of her during sex...he called out her name too,(Jennifer saunders) but they are still together.

[BUNNY]

I had a boyfriend who used to sometimes look away from me during sex.When I asked him why he said that sometimes looking at me got him a bit too excited and he had to look away to make sure he didn't climax too soon!Maybe he was lying or maybe I'm just too sexy for my own good!!!Mind you, this was only a momentary thing.He looked at me most of the time.Just come straight out and ask him.Sex is always better when you can be upfront with each other about things.

[kellysoyer]

CHEERS BUNNY :)

[sanfran]

maybe he thinks that is the normal way you do it and noones ever told him

[Jules001]

I cnt ask him, way to embarassing kellysoyer Sat 23/10/04 you are having sex with the guy which is just about as intimate you can get with someone - how can you be embarrassed by asking a question

[tracymort]

there's far weirder stuff that can happen during sex.  I really wouldn't worry about eye closing!

[surfer_dude]

yes maybe u look like a burning turd vessel, which im sure u do not, only anthea turner can match that brief descrpiton

[bluedolphin]

perhaps he has a kind of performance anxiety .....he is afraid that he will lose his erection if he doesnt concentrate on it and doesn't want to be distracted by looking at someone....have u been having sex for long ...has he? Is it in a rushed situation? could u explain the setting ? I'm sure he will relax more as time goes by....

[secretspirit]

I expect it's because when he closes his eyes he can concentrate on all the sensations rather than accidentally looking at something at getting distracted! I'm sure it's nothing bad kellysoyer. I don't think there are any rules about whether your eyes should be open or not!

[del_1690]

I wouldn't worry about it pal. If he's closing his eyes its him missing out on the sexiest part of making love, seeing the person your doing it with! Its probably that good that he cant do 2 things at once! ;-)

[RainbowBrite]

i think secretspirit is right, why is it so wierd anyway? i suppose maybe if you were trying to make eye contact with him and he had his eyes constantly closed it would be a bit annoying, but people close their eyes when they are kissing and during foreplay and stuff dont they, it doesnt mean they are thinking of someone else!