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Coed bachelor party without bride
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My fiance is having a bachelor party a couple of days before the wedding. His friends want to take him to play paintball and have a BBQ. I was even fine when he said that there would be a stripper (well, mostly fine, would rather there wasn't, but we have a strict hands off policy that I trust him to follow), but he also said that they were inviting several of his friends that are female, including an old girl friend! Am I wrong to be irritated that they are having a coed party and not inviting me? When it was a traditional men's only thing that was different, but my view point is that once it become co ed why would i not be invited? Thoughts?
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For more on marking an answer as the "Best Answer", please visit our FAQ.I am American, he is from New Zealand, but we are living in Australia. I just moved her 1 month ago so don't have any friends here to have a Hen's night with. He doesn't see why I would have an issue...says that he wouldn't mind if i had a coed party because he trusts me. I tried to tell him that is has nothing to do with trust. I actually do trust him, just don't think that it is right for him to have a coed party that doesn't involve me. By the way, this is his second marriage, my first.
how long has he been in Australia ? also how long have you been together ? sorry but in my opinion (maybe not a good one) if this is how he is treating you know i would have loads of concerns for the future with him ,why have you never met his parents before now,i am a little confused about that have you met his kids before now? and is the ex the kids mother?
I have actually known him for 17 years! LONG before he had kids.... We reconnected last year. No, the ex that will be there is not the kids mother. His friends hate her, they would never invite her... This one is just an ex girlfriend...nothing serious. I actually am fine with her in general, they are still friends and that isn't a problem. I know his kids well, so that isn't a problem. His parents still live in NZ. We have chatted and Skype'd just not met in person yet. I pretty much decided that if the party happens, I am just going to spend the day/night in Sydney. Check into an expensive hotel, do some shopping, get a massage... not sticking around with the family. In his defense, he did offer to cancel it or tell them that I was coming. My issue with that is that makes me either the wench that wouldn't let him have the party, or the suffocating wench who wouldn't let him play without me....
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