Sandy, you believe that he believes in us loves us all, and some day will welcome us all home.
To believe that is fine, in my eyes, and your faith is clearly warming, makes you who you are and I'd never suggest that that feeling should be taken from you.
It's the suggesting that it IS the case is what bothers me and seems to be route of countelss conflicts.
Nobody has the right to insist that their opinion, without any factual backing, is more valid that anothers. Why is it that with religion, we cannot just accept that there is no factual backing and agree to disagree?