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My sister is just after telling me about a lady she met in a supermarket last week and I will try and make it short. Her daughter (white) is marrying an indian this year with a full blown white wedding. She has been with him for 14 years and 2 daughters.
However the lady in question called to her daughter's house and daughter was not in - the indian man called her up to the bedroom (ie that is his future mother in law) and he was lying in bed with himself exposed and asked her to touch him up. She is devastated - she has not told her daughter - she does not know what to do. We all know what she should do of course tell her daughter but from my end of listening I don't think the daughter will believe her. What a very sad situation. What would you do?
However the lady in question called to her daughter's house and daughter was not in - the indian man called her up to the bedroom (ie that is his future mother in law) and he was lying in bed with himself exposed and asked her to touch him up. She is devastated - she has not told her daughter - she does not know what to do. We all know what she should do of course tell her daughter but from my end of listening I don't think the daughter will believe her. What a very sad situation. What would you do?
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Are we sure it's not relevant?
Do you know this friend of your sister well enough to take this at face value?
Is it possible she disapproves of mixed marriages and has her own reasons for telling this story?
What I would do would depend who 'I' am
If I am you or your sister I'd stay well out - even if I take it at face value
If I am your sisters friend I'd have to make a judgement call as to whether this was some one off mistake or symptomatic of a wider problem.
Kids are involved and you don't want to kill a 14 year relationship lightly - her daughter might not forgive her.
Personally (I'm male so she might not feel as comfortable about doing this) I'd try and meet him and talk to him about his relationship. If I was then worried that this was part of a wider problem I'd probably try and get him to cancel the wedding and talk to his fiancee about his problem.
Better for him to tell her than for your sisters friend to
Do you know this friend of your sister well enough to take this at face value?
Is it possible she disapproves of mixed marriages and has her own reasons for telling this story?
What I would do would depend who 'I' am
If I am you or your sister I'd stay well out - even if I take it at face value
If I am your sisters friend I'd have to make a judgement call as to whether this was some one off mistake or symptomatic of a wider problem.
Kids are involved and you don't want to kill a 14 year relationship lightly - her daughter might not forgive her.
Personally (I'm male so she might not feel as comfortable about doing this) I'd try and meet him and talk to him about his relationship. If I was then worried that this was part of a wider problem I'd probably try and get him to cancel the wedding and talk to his fiancee about his problem.
Better for him to tell her than for your sisters friend to