I can't remember when I last had a look at the debates here on religion but it was months ago and Naomi and Keyplus are still at it :)
While I hold many/most of the views Naomi puts forward, especially the sadness over the dogma bit, I do feel there is too much stereotyping of “Islam” and “Muslim” behind statements in these discussions. Unfortunately, although I feel certain he would like to, I do not feel Keyplus succeeds in putting them right. What he has tried to say, and is correct in saying, is that regional customs, prejudice, discrimination, bias, etc. have been dressed up as Islam and those who dressed them up, and continue to dress them up, have until now got away with it to the point that not only they but much of the world's population see the two as one and the same. There is not a shred of evidence for Islam (i.e. stripped of the old pre-Islam habits and later bigotry) requiring the dress code that Westerners assume is mandatory - it is non-religious, old-fashioned misogyny built into society that requires this and it suits the misogynists to insist it is their god's will.
And, Keyplus, I genuinely hope that you allow your wife and daughter(s) to dress modestly in Western terms if they choose to, for within true/original Islam that is what is known to be asked for, modesty in the society you are part of – not any of the ones elsewhere, whether they purport to be more Islamic or not. If not then you are less of the man I hope you are and, trust me, I sympathise with your dilemma and definitely do not have a grain of keyplusphobia in me (you amused me with that one). That dilemma consists of choosing, as I imagine you are, between being true to the peer pressures of the culture that created you (your parents, your extended family, your friends, your roots) and on the other hand disagree with them because, in being too compliant with convention, they go against many things that deserve to be questioned by any intelligent individual. The solution lies in the importance of comprehending that those who see religion as something to be dictated to others are inevitably at least to some extent serving themselves. Intimidation, whether by others or self imposed, is very difficult to live with. That said, I sort of admire your tenacity on AB under such persistent bombardment – don't be goaded into stating things that within yourself you know have no part in your argument. You shouldn't put them forward. Everyone, you and your adversaries on here, should show less evidence of hasty bravado.
I also do not like the presumed superiority of the place and Keyplus being asked to show gratitude. Everything is relative and, in the rankings on far too many desirable criteria, the UK is well off the most impressive top – it is, however, no doubt comforting to brush that aside and instead compare with the lower end of the various lists. Christianity has a not-too-illustrious history and people should be careful not to crow too much when comparing the barbarism being exhibited in recent times, by and among Muslim populations, with Christian history “over here”.