octavious - stop putting words in my mouth.
i did not say those things were detrimental to me or anyone else - at least not on the surface and not in their current form... simply because to most people they are an excuse to have a party or eat chocolate etc
my point was, again, our lives are influenced by many religious things, whether we like it or not. it is everywhere.
but their origins and basis is indeed something I do not like.
the fact that we celebrate such nonsense is not something i agree with.
many view those things as a nice little day off work and just an excuse to spoil the kids etc... but to many they are the legacy of horrible times, of violence, control, persecution, guilt, shame, prejudice etc etc - the list of harm religion has done to us over the centuries is huge - physically and to our collective psyche.
so yes i would prefer those things did not exist, an some other celebrations took their place.