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I'm really lonely at the moment. This thing with my friend seems to be hitting me more than the loss of my wife. I need to do something but I don't know what :(
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Hi dizmo, take it an hour at a time if you can, slowly does it. Think of where you want to be in a few years and if it is realistic and attainable, start putting it together bit by bit.
Your friend was daft asking you to lie to his girl, just as you were daft for doing it.
Hang on in there, he might come back to you soon. You are doing well x
Your friend was daft asking you to lie to his girl, just as you were daft for doing it.
Hang on in there, he might come back to you soon. You are doing well x
Hi Dizmouk - haven't been following you re this friend but upon reading earlier posts re this and that - I realise you need to know that you are a very very clever person so you should be doing something with that brain of yours.
September is the right time of year to decide on some kind of a class for yourself. We can all be lonely at times (most times) - I thought I was going doolally 2 weeks ago and thankfully it passed. Do something you would be proud of yourself. I took up piano lessons about 6 weeks ago and when you are deaf it can be a struggle to learn the notes but have a great piano teacher who won't give up on me!!!!
September is the right time of year to decide on some kind of a class for yourself. We can all be lonely at times (most times) - I thought I was going doolally 2 weeks ago and thankfully it passed. Do something you would be proud of yourself. I took up piano lessons about 6 weeks ago and when you are deaf it can be a struggle to learn the notes but have a great piano teacher who won't give up on me!!!!
dizmouk, sorry you're feeling lonely again. Have you tried patching things up with your friend. I think I understand where you're coming from. we all need friends to share a with and have conversation. Try and make new friends so you don't have to rely so heavily on just the one. If you've made
the effort to make up your differences and he's thrown it back in your face then it's his problem not yours. But don't forget he may have worries too that perhaps you're not aware of. Take just one day at a time and don't worry about tomorrow. I'm not very good at this advice lark, just want you to know I know what it feels like to be lonely and I feel for you. I hope you're on the up soon. Cupid04.xx
the effort to make up your differences and he's thrown it back in your face then it's his problem not yours. But don't forget he may have worries too that perhaps you're not aware of. Take just one day at a time and don't worry about tomorrow. I'm not very good at this advice lark, just want you to know I know what it feels like to be lonely and I feel for you. I hope you're on the up soon. Cupid04.xx
I appreciate your input but everyone seems to be getting the wrong end of the stick here.
I'm displaying anger towards my friend. He can't make things up with me, it's over. What part of that concept is hard to grasp? He values his relationship enough to throw away his friendship. Am I on another planet? I feel like I am.
He used me at a patsy and I fell for it. Now I've got my bloody wife texting me, which I've been ignoring for 3 days. I hope I get this job so I can change my number and drop the map.
Once again. I DO NOT WISH FOR THINGS TO PAN THEMSELVES OUT WITH MY ESTRANGED FRIEND. He sold me out and caused my life hell. Stop saying I have to be there to accept him back when he realises how much of a turd he has been.
\\Rant Over\\
I'm displaying anger towards my friend. He can't make things up with me, it's over. What part of that concept is hard to grasp? He values his relationship enough to throw away his friendship. Am I on another planet? I feel like I am.
He used me at a patsy and I fell for it. Now I've got my bloody wife texting me, which I've been ignoring for 3 days. I hope I get this job so I can change my number and drop the map.
Once again. I DO NOT WISH FOR THINGS TO PAN THEMSELVES OUT WITH MY ESTRANGED FRIEND. He sold me out and caused my life hell. Stop saying I have to be there to accept him back when he realises how much of a turd he has been.
\\Rant Over\\
If diz's friend is still being influenced by his lady friend (e.g. the "him or me") scenario, it's hard for the friend, too, to be torn between his old mate and his demanding lady. Hard for diz that the lady seems to be winning at the moment - but that might not always be the case. Diz, what can you do that doesn't cost anything? Volunteering? helping at your local soup kitchen? You're a bright bloke, we don't like to see you at a loose end like this, and morose.
Exactly tambo, I am up here in North Berwick and thoroughly enjoying myself - the locals being very friendly.....I don't know anyone here to begin with, just that a friend has lent me his apartment. Have chatted with a number of different folk in shops, the pub and the golf club - that just needs biting the confidence apple!
