Theland - I have always maintained the following approach -
I do not believe in God and have experienced nothing whatsoever so far to convince me of his existence, but endless minute-by-minute examples of how a 'loving God' cannot allow his children to suffer as they do.
But let's for the sake of argument, say that a nanosecond after I die, I am standing before him.
I have been the best person I can be, and the Bible tells me that a repentant soul will be admitted into heaven.
So if I say Sorry, I was wrong, then God will forgive me, and in I go.
Do you think that is a fair assessment of the way it will go - presuming that your version is right, and mine - instant oblivion - is wrong?