Random stuff

[~max~]

Sorry, I'm drunk and very worried. I'm sure a few of the girls on here have had the same scares. There you go. I'm 4 days "late", and I had stupid unprotected sex with a guy I'm seeing about two weeks ago. I can't tell my mates here, because my best mate is a male, and he's the one I'm in love with and my only female friend is not picking up the phone. I'm going to take a test tomorrow, obviously, if my "little friends" haven't come yet, but until then I'm totally freaked out. That's why I couldn't find an appropriate title for this thread. Not even sure why I'm writing this as it'll probably be a big stupid scare. Sorry. Just please, you people who can, please say a little prayer for me? Thank you.

[figure]

Many factors can be the cause of 'your friend' not visiting - diet, change in weather, hormones, perimenopause. Think positive. Alcohol sometimes give them a push. Hopefully it will come this week.

[~max~]

Thanks Figure. I think I'm just freaking out because I've been so stupid, and not done anything straight after......I'm 30, btw, so definitely should know better! Argh!

[raysparx1]

Hi max, Go to bed,relax try and get some sleep no good sitting up all night worrying, decide what to do if and when a decision is needed, as you say probably just a "Scare" and if it is, learn from it, take care and good luck tomorrow,Ray xx

[Metz]

how old are you?

[~max~]

Thanks Ray, I'm not even sure why I posted about it. I guess it's the "I'm 30 and single" syndrome that makes me see babies everywhere!

[Metz]

answered already ...chill out and don't worry

[raysparx1]

I am off to beddy byes now, you should go to max, do as Metz says, just take it easy, goodnight and as I said before, good luck xx

[meglet]

Please don't take this the wrong way, but didn't you think about the morning after pill?

[kp nonuts]

Here yo go mad max.

http://uk.youtube.com/watch?v=STKkWj2WpWM

[~max~]

Thanks everyone, and of course I should stop worrying, but easier said than done hey!
The thing is, and I know I'm talking way ahead of the game there, but just thinking what could happen.

I'm French, single, been leaving in the UK for 6 years, working full time but only been in new job since september. Would it be even remotely possible for me to raise a baby in those conditions??? Sorry again, just asking potential questions there. Arrrrrrrrrghhh....

[~max~]

I know Meglet. I know I should have. Just didn't happen then. Oh god.

[raysparx1]

max, I was just putting computer off but got to reply to you first, hey if it happens it happens, of course it is possible, it is more than possible, you would manage and you would do it well, it all comes naturally ,we are all scared before it happens, then when it happens we deal with it, won't be easy but then lifes not easy is it, all will be well and remember, what will be will be. nite now xx

[meglet]

I wondered if you could have a coil fitted (I'vre got one and can recommend) as they can be fitted after sex to prevent pregnancy but needs to be done within 5 days unfortunately.

Good luck as has been said. Please come back when you know one way or the other as I'm sure you wil be given advice on options.

x

[~max~]

Thanks again Ray. Really. I will report tomorrow, probably.

[fletcher.5]

Max
I understand why you are looking for support. it is a delicate dilema you find yourself in & I sympathise with you. If one may give you a bit of advise in order to stop a similar incident. Consider taking it up the clacker valve. It hurts, but its 1000% safe God luck Luvey

[~max~]

Lovely. Forgive me if I don't follow that particular advice, mate! But each to their own hey!

[figure]

Oh gawd, forgive me. But what is the clacker valve? Never heard of that before.

[Ice.Maiden]

Nor me, god forbid!

[~max~]

Me neither! lol Just guessed from the clues.....:O(

[Louisa 69]

eee god that's made me laugh i think he means the waste disposal chute :)

Hi max good luck for tomorrow, thinking of you, i know it's hard but try not to worry too much. x