Do you ever get over being lied to?

[Stepmama]

I fell for my ex hook, line and sinker ... we married and the cracks appeared once I was pregnant. I soon began to realise he lied about everything ... nothing was sacred. When he left I contacted his exes and was almost destroyed by some of the stuff they told me ... it wasn't venom - he had done the same to them. The hardest thing to stomach was that one of them had had a miscarriage shortly after I moved in with him and he was the father! Both of his exes ended up in some sort of therapy or counselling ...

I have remarried to a lovely guy - honest as the day is long. But on my wobblier days I remember all of those lies and I tear myself up. Am I ever going to let go of being "conned" because I don't want to destroy my marriage by tarring him with the same brush ...

[pink-kittens]

Yes, I was
Got rid of him and thankfully didn't get around to getting married to him
Helied about lots of things and lead me to beleive things that weren't true
I'm now with a lovely man who ocassionally sensationlises stories but you can see right through him and we laugh about it :)
All men fib!

[LittleMissxx]

i can see exactly where your coming from, and yes it does haunt u for years. I too am married to a decent guy now, but i still cant shake it off. have arguements with myself " get over it" but its not that easy. I guess alot of it is anger because the ex took the pi** in the first place and we were dippy enough to fall into it. (im waffling) I keep my husband on a very short leash, luckily , he's kinda cool with that but i dont think its healthy. I guess its all down to time. Times a great healer. Plus they have to earn your trust, and we ladies gotta wise up and not take thier crap. lol helped atall ?