Hi Ankou and nice to hear another viewpoint Uzoma - God knows where Jake is though! No Ankou, I am definitely not saying that my 'Soul' is controlling how I react to other people. And neither is yours or anyone else's in accordance with my belief of free will. What I'm trying to say and obviously not doing a very good job of, is that my belief in the Soul, which derives from my belief and probably my own interpretation of Spiritualism! -
is that we are socially and morally 'conditioned' (I hestitate using that word) 'affected' I think is better, by as you refer to 'parents' and as you know the many other factors around - school education, friendships, media - the ever expanding media! etc - this bit we agree on.
The difference is that the way you relate to or deal with life derives from those relationships/values with the world in that context (social, moral etc) As I assume you are an athetist - correct me if I'm wrong - it seems you apply your consciousness to the situation, (big assumption, I know) whereas as a Spiritual believer I don't have much faith in my consciousness - Spiritualism is going beyond the conscious - so I 'draw' upon an energy/essence to 'ground' me if you like? I have free will and the Soul is a guide, it is not instrumental. For example if I have a bad day, I don't put it down to events of the day as such, I think - there is a lesson here, whether I am conscious of it or not is limited by my knowledge - I don't know what it is, maybe just learning to be patient or positive but whatever it is, I will learn and grow from it as a person. So I have an added Spiritual relationship I draw from.
Still don't know if it makes sense??