Hi figure, I am "the voice of reason" LOL!
I find that its the best attitude to have i.e. to ignore the people or threads that you dont like. You may have noticed that Legend (in his various guises) follows me around this site like a wee puppy dog, making comments that are aimed to get a reaction out of me, which whilst mildly amusing to me, may in fact upset a mutual friend. But then he has no regard for anyone really does he if that is the way he treats his 'friend', who I know sometimes reads the threads on this site.
I have a puppy dog, her name is Mindy. I don't need another. I have made it plain to Legend that I am in no way interested in him, I dont post in any of his banal threads, I dont acknowledge his posts when he refers to me and yet he still does not appear to grasp the concept that I do not want or need his attention.
I fully expect Legend to post his usual cr@p at me but DONT BOTHER! I am just not interested *shrugs*