My Boyfriend and I broke up about a month ago, and i stilll love him...?

[SecretlyCrushed]

I had been with this guy for about 7 months.I have told so many I loved them,but I knew that this time,I really ment it.Everything was going great between he and I.It was a pact that we had with eachother that we would be together forever,and that would never be broken.In about the last month or two of our relationship,things suddenly changed.We werent as close it felt like.He had things to do and was more busy come the spring season.It started with him not texting me in the morning when he woke up,which he had promised to do ever night before.Its not that big of a deal, but I must admit it was a let down.Then suddenly he just stopped texting me during the school day,and I guess I understood.Its sports season,so I knew he was busy working hard and tired. I got sad,and I text him during the day, knowing I wouldnt get a respond,and I was starting to get used to the feeling He started telling me that he was busy the only day we could hang out,and that made me upset,but I went along like it was okay.That night he told me he missed me,and being a girl i had to try to make him say something cute,when he got an additude,and kinda flipped.Finally I have had enough of his odd behavior.So I asked him what was up latley And thats when he suddenly broke the news.He doesnt talk to me.And his reasons for doing what he was doing was really odd and didnt seem like the truth,although when i did call him out on how it was sounding like bull he protested saying it was the truth and that I should leave it alone.Now one month later,I realize its still bothering me,I still want him back,and although things have gotten better emotionally,they are still really hard.If I could go back to when it was 3 months into the relationship,I would.When everything seemed perfect.But I'd just be content to have him back to the way he was,and have the good parts of the relation back.What the hell happened?!How to get him back?We never see eachother and he doesnt answer texts,so Ive stopped trying...help

[jno]

sounds like he's dropped you. This means you can't get him back, and frankly I doubt he's worth getting back. You don't give his age but you're both at school? People do change all the time at this age; they meet new people, do new things, have new experiences. Maybe you should be doing the same. I know it's hard to give up the security of a relationship - but he's done it for you. Maybe this is a good time to remind yourself that the sea is overflowing with fish; get out there and help yourself.

[Slooow_Jo]

You mention 3 months, in my experience 3 months seems to be the make or break point for most relationships, you seem quite young & I don't doubt you feel crushed but if things are going bad this soon then sadly it's not meant to be :( take some time to grief the relationship then get back out there! honestly when the right one comes along you will realise relationships aren't about pain & you really shouldn't have to be working so hard so soon xx

[Canary42]

Sorry kid, but it's OVER. Now get out there and continue to play the field.

[CuteToni]

Best to leave it love x

[rowanwitch]

And one bit of advice for the next one....don't keep on at them to say nice things...they wouldn't count even it they said them and just make you look clingy and needy being high maintenance isn't a good strategy.

Good luck who knows who is waiting for you

[SecretlyCrushed]

Really, thanks everyone. Things are getting better, although still hard, and this was just a really good check. It hurts to hear hes gone for good, and that I should move on too like he did. I guess it just hurts that it happened so quickly. Maybe i shouldnt wear my heart on my sleeve :/ thanks for the help (: